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MissMogwi · 01/06/2012 14:12

As a mature student with children I have at times felt a little out of the loop at uni. Of course, some of this is because I am a lot older than some of the students and they crack about being young and lovely and fun while I, well, don't.

I am doing some training next week to become a mentor and I have had an idea I might put forward to the organisers.

I am proposing a support group for mature students, not just parents, where we meet up once a month during the day and everyone shares how they are getting on, any problems etc. I think I would have got a lot out of this in my first year, especially after the relatively 'protected' feeling of the access course. I would arrange it and email everyone, maybe even hold two a month because of differing schedules etc. I think the 'organised' aspect would help it get off the ground.

There are welcome events at uni but they are always in the evening and I know many of us with children couldn't attend. Plus many of them involve just getting pissed, which isn't a viable option on a school night! I think the group would help everyone get to know each other and people would naturally form friendships and therefore the support networks we all need.

What do you think? Would this have helped you?

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Itwillendinsmiles · 01/06/2012 15:58

Hi MissMogwi,

Well done on the mentor training - I opted to have a mentor this year and he was a great help, as I'm sure you'll be.

I think your proposal and the way you've thought it out are fab and I'd definitely be involved if there was one at my uni.

It would certainly have helped as being a mature student can be isolating if the vast majority on your course are the 'normal' age! 0) It's less of an issue with the nursing, midwifery, life science courses etc but I'm the only one over 25 out of my cohort of 150. (Economics)

Would it be worth approaching your SU as well? Mine has all sorts of clubs and societies and you would then be 'visible' through the website, societies fair etc?

And it would be good for your CV too... Bonus!

Good luck with it.

tumbleweedblowing · 02/06/2012 17:07

Yup. I agree with everything itwillsendinsmiles says. Smile

MissMogwi · 02/06/2012 20:18

Thanks for the feedback. Smile

The more I think of it, the more I think it would be a good idea. Even if it tails off when people get in to the swing of things, it would be a good starting point IYSWIM?

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Sunnywithachanceofshowers · 14/06/2012 13:17

I know I'm late to this thread, but I think it sounds like a great idea. I don't have children, but will be starting a BA in September at the age of 41. I felt elderly compared to the students at the open day - and one or two of the lecturers.

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