Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Parenting

For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.

Help needed to get toddler to settle in his new bed, please!

5 replies

nonapandknackered · 22/05/2012 20:52

We moved DS into a toddler bed a week ago as he'd started to climb out of his cot. He's 2.7.

Basically, it's been a nightmare! He's usually a really good sleeper, but every night since we changed his bed he's spent three hours screaming / crying / messing around and wrecking his room. We can't go back to the cot as DS2 is in it now (though DS prob doesn't realise this as DS2's old cot as exactly the same, but is now broken).

He initially seemed to like it, and climbed in it as soon as he saw it. He'll lie in it when it's not bed (or nap) time, but come bed time it's a different story. He's not able to explain to us what the problem is with the new bed (though I completely understand it's new and daunting and scary).

We've tried;
Keeping him in his sleeping bag / out of his bag.
Sitting with him and trying to get him to sleep, and lying in the bed with him - neither of these work as when DH or I are in the room he is WIDE awake and just wants to play.
Putting him into bed, and leaving the room. He immediately gets up and opens the door, so we just put him back in bed, and on it goes....

It seems that he finally goes down when he's completely knackered. Not ideal!

So, has anyone got any suggestions for how to make it easier on all of us?!

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
nonapandknackered · 22/05/2012 21:11

bump?

OP posts:
nonapandknackered · 22/05/2012 21:39

and another bump?

OP posts:
nonapandknackered · 22/05/2012 22:05

Is there anybody there? Smile

OP posts:

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

2to3 · 22/05/2012 22:31

Hi - I feel your pain. I did this with 22 month twins for about 4 months before they got the hang of it. It's really difficult. It was like the lunatics had escaped from the asylum to have a party. We put a stair gate on their door and left them to run themselves tired. Then I'd lie down with one of them and cuddle (=restrain, gently) one of them until he calmed down and started feeling tired. Then I'd move on to his brother. The main trick is not to get angry-he just won't get why at that age. He'll learn. And wrecking his room without getting any attention for it is a lot less fun than two parents running ragged. You can tidy up in the morning. Just remember its a phase Grin

2to3 · 22/05/2012 22:34

And we also got one of those bed guards that made their new beds seem more like cots. I think some kids just don't see that they are the same thing-beds are not as cozy as cots?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page