I co-sleep with 2 of my dc. Ds2 is 4 years and dd almost 5 months. Ds2 has had awful cough and 2 nights ago was awake most of it coughing. Last night he insisted he wanted to sleep in his room and reluctant to even say good night to me :( at 1.30 he cried and came into mine. Tonight he wanted to sleep in his own bed again and said it was because he was coughing and I told him its fine and I don't mInd him coughing and love him, and he can sleep in whichever bed he likes. He's chosen his own again. I'm proud that he now feels ready for his own bed but and also very :( as our only time we really get was bedtime and I miss him. I know I'm being a silly numpty and I'm pleased that he's get confidence and that we always followed dc needs. I also know this isn't about his need but my need to snuggle my scrumptious 4 year old and hear him breathing and wake with his arms wrapped around my head. I miss him :-( (and it is mothers day)