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What things to we love to see our darling children achieve? Why is it so important?

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JillAskey · 08/03/2012 10:07

Thoughts?

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IAmBooyhoo · 08/03/2012 10:09

you first.

Lizzylou · 08/03/2012 10:14

DS1 - having more confidence in himself and being more outgoing. Writing and
reading more.

DS2 - concentrating and not being as bonkers in class. Oh, wiping his arse. I am sick of whacking great poo stripes.

Anything else is a bonus.

Lizzylou · 08/03/2012 10:14

I'm not aiming high enough am I? Grin

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mummytolee · 08/03/2012 10:14

Jill, you've started a lot of these types of threads lately. Positive though they are, I can't help but think you are a journalist trawling for content???

Lizzylou · 08/03/2012 10:17

Have I been suckered?
Will my non-ass wiping 6 yr old's problem be plastered all over the DM?

Must MN more

JillAskey · 08/03/2012 10:39

Haha busted, I'm not a journalist, I'm honestly looking for information that will help me get an insight as to what it's like to be a mum - I'm a University student looking for information for a project I am trying to complete.... and I really haven't the foggiest what its like to be a Mum... Its nice to see such positive threads, and I really appreciate everybody's input :)

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 08/03/2012 11:10

Do you have parents of your own?

CogitoErgoSometimes · 08/03/2012 11:28

Early days we like to tick off 'walking', 'talking' etc. because it means they're growing normally. After the basics, what most parents want their children to achieve is happiness - and that's highly individual. In the case of my parents who came from poor backgrounds and had a low standard of education, for example, it was very important to them that their children did well at school/uni, got good jobs and didn't have to struggle to make ends meet the way they'd had to. Someone from a more wealthy background might be less concerned that their children get good jobs and more concerned that they follow their dreams. The parent that is passionate about sport might want their child to achieve in that direction so that they have something in common. A very sociable parent is going to worry if their child doesn't have a lot of friends. A shy one will get great satisfaction if their child achieves things that require confidence.

In all cases, it's important to parents because we're responsible for overseeing their development from 'tiny and helpless' to 'functioning adult'. If they're developing they're acheiving, and if they're achieving we're succeeding.

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