We have a 4 yo DS. No family nearby to babysit nor do we have friends nearby that we have felt comfortable to ask. We have now found a babysitter that we trust and that DS knows and feels comfortable with. Hurray! But it's left me wondering: what are the basics of having someone babysit your DC? For example, how much should I expect to pay, roughly? Am I expected to feed her/supply her with snacks/give her money for a take away (home delivered obviously)? Apart from the appropriate payment for her time and potential effort (hopefully Ds will sleep most of the time so it shouldn't be too onerous), what am I expected to provide?
It feels stupid to have to ask, but I have no idea what to expect in this situation
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