Do your children have many playdates or outside activities. I've got dd 4.5, ds 3 and ds 1.5. Dd started school half-days in September and I just can't muster the enthusiasm to make play-dates. The thought of another child to look after just makes me exhausted. Also because dh works crazy hours it is very difficult for me to take any of them to things like ballet or gymnastics. Ds1 goes to nursery three mornings a week so he has a bit of an outing then. But I'm starting to feel a bit guilty that they need something more. How do the rest of you manage?