that's it really: simple, and yet, really difficult. I am sure there must be thousands of mnetters out there who've been in the same situation. how did you resolve it?
We have two gorgeous little ones. Our second, DD, arrived after two years of hell as i went through four miscarriages - so she is a miracle really. I look at her sometimes and can't believe my luck. Yet i've always wanted three children, and though i feel hugely blessed to have two, that 'want' is still there...
He is not keen and says he's too old (he is much older than me, at nearly 49..). He generously says we can have a third if i like, but is this asking for trouble in our marriage?
I am clear that I will not go through multiple miscarriages in a quest for a third child, but am willing to risk another one or two losses.
Am i being selfish? How should we handle this? We are not arguing about it at all - we are just beginning to discuss it, very gently. my DD is only four months old, so it is very early days. What would you do?
sorry if i'm posting on the wrong board. i have posted on Relationships too but no responses, which surprises me as a i reckon this must be a pretty common situation.