Hi guys, I'm new to the site, so please feel free to direct or suggest my entries as you see fit! :)
We found out a few years back that the teen living next door had paedo tendencies- explicit letters were written & intended for my 7 y.o. daughter, at around the same time, he had attempted to kiss her when she was around there playing with his younger sister. We were invited around by his parents to confront him in a hope to "knock it on the head". We could see he knew it was wrong, apologised, said it would never happen again ;hung his head etc. I must mention he has a low mental age/ "special needs".
Needless to say more letters were found & we believe his behaviour continued in the same vein with others at his school/on the school bus etc from reports we heard.
He had his own social workers & they just shrugged it off- saying they didn't think he would "act" on it. Quite apart from building a high fence to provide a physical barrier, we tried to pass our concerns to the social services, health visitors & even wrote to local MP's, MSP's & got the police involved.
The lad got a court appearance (a string of school exclusions, & similar antics whilst at school, as well as our own info led to this). As predicted by the policeman who interviewed us at the family protection unit, charges were dropped when the judge saw "special needs" on his notes.
Fast forward a little & he was removed from his home after allegations were made that his step father had been violent towards him- a big relief for us though obviously! Whether because of the parent's appeal, or him changing his story- we have found that he is on a "months trial" with the parents; returning home for periods, with a view to him returning home after that if it's "succesful".
A massive weight is on our shoulders again- he used to stare at our kids from his bedroom when they were in the garden, or stare up to their bedroom from his garden- that's apart from what I wrote above.
What are we to do apart from move?? (and why should WE have to?).
If it adds anything to the legal side: we live in Scotland & the neighbours rent from the council.
Sorry for length of posting, but I thought I'd better explain the circumstances as much as I could. Help!