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I feel so bad I've just said something rude to my son

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BlueberryPancake · 06/04/2011 10:12

DS (5) is driving me nuts at the moment. He is in constant need of attention, and is very demanding. He doesn't misbehave but from the minute he wakes up in the morning he asks something of me or from me ('where's my (very small lego) girl toy? can you change the battery in this toy? can I go to school on my bike? Can we have a picnic this afternoon? Can I take my toy to school? Can I have chocolate pancakes for breakfast? Can we go to the toy museum after school? Can we have some friends over after school? - all those questions requests and more were asked this morning before 9 am!!) I have another little boy to look after, and at one point I lost it. He took his favorite toy dog to school (I caved in) and left it in the park for about two minutes and when we went back to get him the toy was gone. Someone had taken it. I exploded, the lid flopped. I was very cross with him because he always insists on taking a toy to school and often looses it, leaves it behind, or other kids want to play with it and he gets upset. I feel really bad because it's not his fault if his toy was taken (we later found it as another school child had taken it 'to give it a good home Hmm'. I was very cross and was rude to my son, I used the 'stupid' word mumbled and I feel really bad about it. But he is really driving me mad with all his requests all the time, non stop, demands demands demands. His poor little brother doesn't stand a chance. Sorry about the long post but I just need to know that I am not the only one who gets irritated by my own child.

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TrinityIsABunnyMunchingRhino · 06/04/2011 10:14

sounds like any 5 year old to me

and if the toys to school cause issue then just ban toys going to school (thats what I had to do after some were broken, she only wanted her friends to look not play, she left some there and was upset)

EightiesChick · 06/04/2011 10:21

Sounds normal to me BUT I totally get that it can be hard to deal with. My DS is younger but is currently prone to the 'I want... I want..' over and over again and I have to bite my lip and stay calm! Can you direct him towards something to do when he starts making the stream of requests that will keep him busy for a while? What is he most interested in?

Did he get the toy dog back from the kid who had 'given it a good home', or not? I would use this in any case as a cast iron reason for no toys leaving the house again.

fingerpaints · 06/04/2011 13:39

Oh gosh TOTALLY don't feel bad you are So not alone!! It's completely completely normal to feel overwhelmed - my DS is now much older and I still haven't completely learned not to flip occasionally! In the grand scheme of things your outburst will barely register on his radar he knows how loved and happy he is the rest of the time - don't give it another moment's thought!

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