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How to tell DD (2.5) that her comforter is actually triplets?

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treehugga · 05/04/2011 20:35

When my DD was very tiny she was given a rabbit that quickly became her favourite comforter and in the intervening years (she's now 2.5) is the one she needs to sleep, snuggle, stroke, tease and generally love, especially in moments of crisis.

So far, so normal. But, thinking myself very clever I actually bought 3 identical rabbits so that one can be washed, dried, lost, dropped etc with no disruption to service. Amazingly we still have all 3 and incredibly useful they are - eg last week when DD was sick in the night over 2 consecutive rabbits, and the third one came into play and did its comforting thing at 4am, I was very glad it was there.

The thing is: when should I tell her there's a fluffy blue rabbit trinity? Is this going to be a major psychological blow or something a 2 yr old will accept without it devaluing her deep and profound love for the thing? My instinct is that it's best to break it to her sooner rather than later as at the mo it isn't going to be a big deal, and there's no way I can keep it a secret from her, but the question is: how and what do I tell her? Is this going to be really weird for her in the future when most kids have their one special teddy?

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LawrieMarlow · 06/04/2011 20:54

Oh and DS is now 7 and DD 5 and they both have a lot of soft animals. Soft animals are very good things Smile.

spiralqueen · 06/04/2011 21:09

We have 2. Best advice anyone ever gave us and the only advice we now give other people expecting their first DC. We've got quite adept at Bear No.1 going into bath with DD, getting out and getting wrapped into a towel then following DD into her bedroom (at a distance) and Bear No. 2 emerging from a towel completely dry. DD now 3.5 and hasn't sussed yet but we do wonder if there will be trust issues in the future Grin

mybabywakesupsinging · 07/04/2011 21:11

DS knew there were 3 elephants when he was 2.
One was the "duty" ele and the other 2 lived in the drawer until it was their turn.
We thought we were so clever...

Obviously he could tell them apart within months and would call plaintively for his favourite, who apparently had a "little tail".
There are 5 eles in his bed tonight.

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monkoray · 07/04/2011 21:18

don't tell her. My mum made a whole bunch of my comforter and produced a new one every time i lost mine and she never told me. Eventually i was old enough to figure it out for myself but i didn't let on that i knew. When i left home age 19 my mum gave me the 5 she had left in the cupboard. Now 34 they still live in the bottom of my cupboard. I have no trauma from knowing that my mum cared enough to think ahead. But i might not have appreciated that at the age of 2.

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