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I'm stuck in a rut of anxious fannying and kettle polishing. Please advise or kick my arse!

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RoobyMurray · 03/04/2011 15:55

I'm nearing the end of my course and I'm all studied out. Loads more work to do. I'm late handing in a piece of work for my portfolio.

I should've started ages ago but I'm completely STUCK. It's like I'm frozen. I'm putting so much energy into avoiding it that I'm wracked with guilt and STILL not writing!

I feel so completely overwhelmed that I'm not doing anything. That makes no sense and is NOT HELPFUL. It's not very grown up either. Jeez.

AAAAAAAAAAAAGH!

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purepurple · 03/04/2011 15:58

I feel your pain. I am in exactly the same position. I should be writing my last 2 assignments but always seem to find something else to do, like ironing.
What are you studying?

RoobyMurray · 03/04/2011 16:00

Social work. On full time placement. With partner working away a lot.

I want to stop and get off.

What about you?

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purepurple · 03/04/2011 16:03

Early years. I work full time too. The only thing that motivates me at the moment is the big piss-up we are planning on graduation day Grin

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RoobyMurray · 03/04/2011 16:06

I'm going to get in such trouble.

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RoobyMurray · 03/04/2011 16:11

are you sat at your pc 'working' too pp?

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purepurple · 03/04/2011 16:12

Yes, I have another window open and am 'researching' journal articles on my college moodle site, looking for contrasting points of view.

tinierclanger · 03/04/2011 16:13

Ok, it's a long time since I was a student but when I'm like this at work I find it sometimes helps to write the END of something first. It gives me a psychological boost. Could you try that?

RoobyMurray · 03/04/2011 16:22

That's probably a good idea tc. I tend to write start to finish with very little moving around. Maybe I should try just writing a paragraph here and there and patching them together.

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tinierclanger · 03/04/2011 16:24

Yes, just write the bit you think is easiest first. Then glue it all together, and then if it needs changing when the first draft is complete, much easier.

RoobyMurray · 03/04/2011 16:29

Anyone got any advice about how to not have a breakdown in the last 4 months of a masters please?

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dotty2 · 04/04/2011 14:16

How are you getting on? I'm a PhD student but am also having a bit of a slump at the moment. Turning the router off when writing so I can't surf helps for me (though obv not if you need to check references etc). I tend to gather all my material in advance and leave myself a short time to write so that I really just have to crack on with it. It must be v.hard with the full-time placement, though. Try just getting some words down on paper and then tweaking. Set a kitchen timer for 10 minutes and make yourself write with no distractions for that length of time - that's supposed to help get you started.

RoobyMurray · 04/04/2011 20:14

Thanks dotty.

Switching off the router would be an alien, but very good idea!

I also leave myself a short time, but this time I'm still not writing even though I should. It feels like I'm kind of physically stuck.

I need to step into my office and have a word with myself...

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