hubby has had a kidney transplant,he had it on the thursday, i told dla the following monday that he was in hospital. they had a go at me as apparently i should have informed them THE DAY he had the transplant???
now im trying to find out when i should tell of a change of circumstances but im getting conflicting info from them, some advisors are saying i should do a change of circs form straight away and some say too leave it till his care/mobility needs change.
i spoke to the hospital yesterday and they said that all having a transplant will do is to rectify dh,s blood chemistry, all the other problems that arose in the 6 years of him being on dialysis eg bone disease arent going to magically dissapear just because he has had a transplant.
im just so scared that his dla will be stopped as he still has alot of care needs. he has hypermobility syndrome and nerve damage in his left arm meaning he has very little use of the arm, he also has nerve damage in his leg from the transplant. plus asthma and eczema.....sorry for the waffle lol, think i just needed to write it all down, x