have just gone back to uni after time off having ds3. am part way thru 2nd year and he is 17 months. i was so excited but everything has gone pear shaped. we are still living in a miserable flea pit where i have no space to work. the only room i can be alone is the bathroom and there is noise everywhere so i cant work at home. i hate staying at uni too long because ds3 doesnt like nursery. if i stay all i am thinking about is him. but i dont know what to do if i leave. want to finish but dont know if theres any point, if i cant do the work i will fail anyway.