My wonderful hubby is finding being a new dad very hard, to the point that he is feeling very down most of the time. We have even had a few tears and he is not usually emotional, in fact he normally hides his feelings. He has told me he does not know how he feels about our five week old daughter, altough he knows he cares about her. He feels like he has not done enough to help because he is yet to change a nappy and he does not deal with bodily fluids that well. I think he has done a great job in supporting me so far, he has helped out with the feeding and looks after her whilst I have a bath to give me some time to myself but he still does not think he has done enough. We had a bad start - I was induced twice but it did not work and was in hospital a week before they decided to break my waters, the birth itself was not straight foward and by the end of it all we were both very tired. I think this has caused most of the problems. How can I help him see that he is doing a good job? Does anybody know of any Dad support groups/sites that I can direct him to - I am sure he is not alone on how he feels.