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Getting broodier by the day - Come and tell me your 3 dc horror stories...

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mama2mooandbabymoo · 18/11/2010 10:12

Please tell me that the 3rd pregnancy and labour is horrible.

I have 2 fab dd's - 2.5 and 9mo. Both easy pregnancies and labours - 7lb and 8lb 13oz.

I so want another one but dp is not keen!!!

So, feel free to scare me off!!

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FernieB · 18/11/2010 10:47

Don't have 3 myself. I would have loved to have had 3 young children, but they do grow up and the thought of 3 teenagers and all the washing, cleaning, cooking and attitude involved in that put me off. They are only small and cute for a short period, then they get bigger and it's a long time until they leave home Grin

wigglesrock · 18/11/2010 11:02

Having 3rd in Feb, have 2 dds (5&3), not going to scare you off sorry Grin My main encouragement in going ahead was my mum, she had two and had always regretted not having more!!. But my pregnancy has been harder!!

ohforfoxsake · 18/11/2010 11:03

When you have three no one is left out. You have one on your knee, the other two hang out with each other and play beautifully.

I was surprised that I had time to myself as the baby slept and the older two amused themselves after lunch every day.

My births got progressively easier, even though the babies got bigger (number 4 positively slipped out)

Oh. Sorry. You wanted to hear how it doesn't work. WinkGrin

There is a lot of washing.
Making 3 packed lunches every day is a right pain in the arse.
I spend a lot of time taking them places and standing out in the cold.

Grin

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CharlieBoo · 18/11/2010 13:31

I only have 2 and have one of each but when the baby stage goes, I miss having a baby iykwim. My other half says I'd be in the nut house if we had another, and he's probably right Grin

I also worry if there would be enough of ME to go round them all. Also everything seems to be designed for 2 kids, houses, cars, holidays, dining tables.......is any of this working haha?

Baysmum · 18/11/2010 13:36

Well I am pg with 3rd which is due in April and am now thinking aaah what have I done!! Always wanted 3 but practical issues didn't seem to occue to me until I actually fell pregnant. Friends keep saying 'well you always wanted 3' which rings true, problem is I can't remember why!! Feel like we will never go out, on holiday, for meals etc again, and as for them going to uni etc... aaargh!!!

mama2mooandbabymoo · 20/11/2010 21:10

You were supposed to be putting me off!!

We have friends coming tomorrow with their new baby. I am going to avoid holding the baby.....

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SylvanianFamily · 20/11/2010 22:15

Number 3 always wrecks number2s Lego, and even I get pissed off.....

..... Number 3 is, erm, a vocal child.... And the older two who know better think it's hilarious to join in with a bagpipe chorus. And it's a bugger to discipline for, 'cos you don't want everyfink to come down to ' you can't sit and shout, but the youngest can, because I can't actually stop him short of gaffer taping his mouth'

... Did I mention the NOISE. You didn't hear? was that because of the NOISE that means you can't hear yourself think let alone speak unless you shout, when you realize you've become part of the problem and added to,the NOISE NOISE NOISE

And junior gets so used to being entertained by all singing all dancing siblings, that if you get him on his own he sits flatly on the floor and looks at you like a cat presented with a raggedy scratch post.

And people comment to you in the street as though you've put yourself up as some paragon of motherhood. Nope. I'm a shit mother too. Just ambitious with it.

And when typo book holidays, the search engines tell you'ERROR . TOO MANY CHILDREN'. And you say, FFS, camping again?

watch Outnumbered from BBC. It is very good.

And you have to become pragmatic verging on cold when One decides to smash crockery and dance in it, on decides to eat cat food and the third has an emotional moment not to feel left out.

I'm desperately broody for a fourth.

notnowbernard · 20/11/2010 22:16

I love having 3, I really, really do Smile

But must say pg and birth with DC3 were the worst BY FAR

SylvanianFamily · 20/11/2010 22:19

Pregnancy was fine. apart from being scolded by the physio "what do you expect if you don't give your body time to recover?"

wineandpeanuts · 20/11/2010 22:26

i have just done 3 under 3 DC3 now 3mo- love it! most fab, pg, fast labout- but big baby. most contented, happy, chatty baby ever- hope this is suitably putting u off Smile
our wee, 2 bedroom flat, does get noisey tho Grin

wineandpeanuts · 20/11/2010 22:26

loads of typos-sorry

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