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I have a DS with my ex husband and now pregnant with my partners

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Scruffyhound · 26/10/2010 15:35

I have a DS who is 4 yrs old. He sees his dad (my ex husband of 15 yrs) every other weekend and we arrange a place to meet for him to collect him. Im also pregnant with another baby with my partner of 2 nearly 3 years. Im worried about the whole family unit and hope everyone gets along ok and this sounds stupid but Im worried I cant love this baby as much as my DS as he is my world. Also when I had DS I had a house with a mortgage things were good in money terms and thigs were smooth (accept husband was a idiot thats why I left!) this time around im so unsettled im living in an area where I know no one my son started school and got bullied (which has never happened before) and were renting a house. I own a house where I used to live and am trying to get my rent from the tenant which is 2 weeks late even though I going though a letting agent.Its also been on the market for 2 yrs. I think Im gonna loose my house end up in debt with no place to call home and live in an area I dont know anyone for help and support with the little ones. I feel quite down at times about it. Any advice aould be great.

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GypsyMoth · 26/10/2010 15:38

what about your partner? he will help!
having young children puts you in a good position to meet other mums,so get out and about and give it time

mortgage doesnt make you happy,whyb are you fixated with that? its the banks house untill its paid anyway

Scruffyhound · 26/10/2010 15:48

My partner will help im sure. I love him a lot. I have looked up groups for meeting up but it seems mainly for mums with little ones as in 3yrs and under. Im taking him out for activtys this week for halloween so I will/am trying. And I dont think anyone has ever put that over like that before about the mortgage! Thanks though has made me think different! Guess its the way I was brought up? And was thinking of my sons future if something happened to me he still has the house? Your right though. Smile

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GypsyMoth · 26/10/2010 22:02

its just a house at the end of the day!

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