I'm fortunate to have just mild Cerebral Palsy (left hemiplegia). Context: I have difficulties walking and can barely use the fingers of my left hand. I can grip quite well with the hand and hold things (including babies!) with confidence. In winter, my mobility problems make going out alone nigh on impossible. I have terrible problems with my left hip and my body 'twists' so that I can't stand up straight or bend down easily.
DH and I are TTC and I'd like to know about pregnancy, childbirth and parenting for mothers with Cerebral Palsy. I have previously had a miscarriage and just four weeks into the pregnancy, the pain in my pelvis and hips was excrutiating. I worry about carrying to term and delivery because, in pain, I often go into spasm. I guess an elective section is an option but this doesn't solve the pregnancy problem.
I am also worried that I'd be unable to physically lift and carry a child, particularly as they got older, and particularly in weather that could be dangerous. I cannot drive, which exacerbates the problems.
DH and I as babies were both extremely premature. He had serious heart problems and wasn't expected to live beyond 4 (he is well enough, 40 years later) and I got Cerebral Palsy after being starved of oxygen at birth. I'm 30 now.
Any insights to 'disabled' parenting would be reassuring as we go on this exciting journey. Thanks.