I think my parents are obsessed with dd1 and turning her against us- i think they are trying to get her to leave us and move in with them eventually.

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It giving me the creepps.
Long story and too much to put on here.
Have always over indulged her.
Always given her lots more than her siblings.
Have been going behind our back for a few years now in very obsessive ways.
Have actually taken her out of school twice now and we had police looking for her-acted like nothing jhad happened.
Im now fearful that they are trying to turn her against us so much she will walk and move in with them. They are completely and utterly obsessed with her-shes 17 and very immature . Probably a little autistic tbh and very easily led .
She does love her grandparents and i dont blame her they have put her on such a pedastel she looks down her nose at everyone now and has no friends what so ever - only lots of adult friends of my parents !

Sorry its all come to a head because ive put a stop to them doing all her coursework for her for her a levels ! lol they think i m doing it to stop her going to uni ffs.
Didnt tell them i`m doing it because i dont want her getting to uni and launching herself off the nearest bridge when she realises she cant do anything herself !

This sounds very unhealthy. Do they not realise it's a bit weird? Do you know what their motivation is? Perhaps they have nothing else in their lives to focus on.

Can u move, far far away from them???

Well, within a year hopefully she will be at uni. Where does she want to go to? Somewhere at a distance would be a good idea.

OK, so she's an immature 17... but could you try an adult to adult conversation with her? Cut your parents out of the equation altogether. Talk to her and explain the long-term problem with someone else doing her coursework. And also explain to her the importance of her letting you know where she is. Stop dealing with your parents altogether. This is about your relationship with her, not them.