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SAHM boredom!

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GoingLoopy · 28/09/2010 13:20

The DTs are playing happily by themselves. DS1 comes back from school in 1.45 mins so no time to really go anywhere. We have done the local playground too many times. Been out on out bikes already this morning.

I was complaining when the dts needed 100% of my time, but now I don't know what to do with myself when they don't want me to entertain them. If I disappear for too long they start turning the place upside down so I can't sit down for long to concetrate on anything.

OK, so the house can always use a bit more cleaning and there is always a new recipe in the book I can try, but....

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belgo · 28/09/2010 13:23

Do something for yourself! An evening course for example, or some voluntary work. Just being a mother can get very boring.

GoingLoopy · 28/09/2010 13:32

I'm starting a distance learning German course, waiting for the stuff to arrive - hoping that will help.

Voluntary work or any kind of job isn't really an option at the moment as dts are at home except for playgroup 2 hours twice a week and ds1 has to come home for lunch and most afternoons (Am in Switzerland where the society still make it extremely difficult for mothers to leave the house if they are a SAHM).

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belgo · 28/09/2010 13:55

No wonder you are going loopy then, stuck in a foreign country with twins at home nearly full time. Do you have a long term plan? A language course is a good start.

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GoingLoopy · 28/09/2010 15:26

I've been going loopy since not long after the dts were born LOL :)!

Long term plan is a good idea but very vague - spend a lot of time thinking about it and not much doing anything about it. The German course is a first very small step to give me more job choices!

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Octaviapink · 28/09/2010 17:48

How about a hobby of some sort? Sewing, knitting, reading, modelling, painting etc. If the DTs are happy amusing themselves then you could really get your teeth into something creative.

belgo · 28/09/2010 17:57

Yes hobbies are good but you need to be very self motivated and have concrete objectives to achieve; I know that is hard with twins!

Have you thought about teaching english as a foreign language?

carocaro · 28/09/2010 18:01

yes you have to fill yousefl up in other ways, I rip magazine and newspaper articles out that I don't read in the day due to lack of time and read just one or two at bedtime.

I also get coffee table style books from the library about travel and home stuff, lovely to look at and lots of ideas and inspiration

You made any friends yet?

GoingLoopy · 30/09/2010 20:49

Funny you mention knitting, I told dh the other day that I had thought about taking it up but he laughed at me and just today a friend called and said she was thinking about setting up a knitting circle and was I interested in joining - although she also laughed at me and said she couldn't imagine me knitting!

Friends - yes I've been here for a while... dh is swiss and I had the kids here. I live in a small village and there are even a few expats here. Day to day its difficult because everyone's kids are on a different school timetable and the kids walk to school on their own so we don't have the school gate mums conversations. We all seem to be either waiting for the kids to go to school or waiting for them to get home or waiting to take them to another activity. And I get bored of the small village conversations of SAHMs - who said what, who pissed who off, which children are doing what with which other children.... where you get you hair cut/legs waxed...

Belgo you are so right about concrete objectives, but I have to accept that I am fairly stuck until the dts go to Kindergarten next august, then they will be there for 5 mornings which will just about give me time to do shopping childfree or go for a run. I may try to squeeze in a real course. And I guess I still find the dts hardwork, it takes a lot of motivation and a huge amount of energy to do anything with them away from home especially if we are under time pressure.

Don't think I'm keen on teaching English but I have been thinking about doing something with my language over here - copy editing, proof reading, eventually translation (that's a long way off yet though!)

Belgo - I'm sure we've met on here sometime ago, do you also have twins?

I read anything and everything I can get my hands on. I stand peeling potatoes with a book propped up (unless the dcs are 'helping') but it doesn't fulfill me IYKWIM

I feel as if I'm really wingeing, I don't know if the boredom is normal for SAHMs or If I am just a bad SAHM!

Carocaro are you also away from the UK?

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GoingLoopy · 30/09/2010 20:50

Ooops, that was a long post....Blush!

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