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beansmum · 28/09/2010 02:17

I'm stressed (partly by study, partly by earthquakes) and poor and tired and I just want to be able to relax. Not long until the end of year exams (I'm in NZ) and I'm not ready, and then when they're over I have summer school then another 3 years of this!

How did you get through it without going insane? Was it worth it?

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beansmum · 29/09/2010 01:33

Anyone?

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BertieBotts · 29/09/2010 01:49

Everyone is probably in bed - I'll bump this tomorrow for you :)

beansmum · 29/09/2010 03:02

Either that, or everyone actually has been driven insane by studying. Gah. It is hard. Although I have sort of managed to remind myself why I am doing it, and I am feeling very slightly more motivated today.

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BertieBotts · 29/09/2010 12:43

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beansmum · 30/09/2010 20:59

I suppose people who have successfully completed their studies are not likely to be looking at the student parents topic...

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TidyBush · 30/09/2010 21:34

Yes it is worth it!

How's this for a success story?

I left school at 16 with 2 'o' levels and 3 CSEs.

Having had some crappy jobs I went to night school to learn secretarial skills and managed to get an office job. Cue years of working my way up the ladder then taking a few years out to have my DDs.

When DD2 was 3 I went back to work very part time. Started to work my way up again but always had the idea in the back of my mind that I was a bit inadequate because I didn't have any decent qualifications.

So..... when I was 33 (and DDs were 8 and 5) I decided to try and get into Uni. I made a few phone calls late September 2002, went for an interview and ended up with an unconditional offer for a part time place. On my way home from the inteview I walked past a whole load of graduates coming out of their ceremony and thought to myself "one day that'll be me".

Just a couple of weeks later I started my course, thinking "I'll be glad to come out of this with a third". There then followed 6 years of blood, sweat and a lot of tears. While I was studying I was promoted and ended up as CEO of an incorporated charity so I had a mahoosive work load at work, a home and family to look after and my studies (I struggled so much at first that I used to have a text book in one hand and dictionary in the other Grin).

Well in 2008, I was one of those graduates proudly walking from the uni in my cap and gown to the ceremony venue to get my First Class Honours degree .

Not bad for a thicko from a bog standard comp.

So beansmum my advice to you it this. Time will go just as quickly whether you study or not, but if you just stick at it those 3 years will be gone in the blink of an eye and you'll have something that no one can ever take away from you.

Good luck and keep at it (but I thank God I hadn't found MN when I was studying Grin)

beansmum · 01/10/2010 02:53

That's what I was looking for!

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pencilpotmonitor · 07/10/2010 11:38

Wow...that is inspirational TidyBush (feels rude calling someone that Grin )

Keep going Beansmum....keep picturing your graduation Smile

mysticflayme · 07/10/2010 22:07

Another story:

left school with average GCSE's but no inspiration to do ANYTHING. had far too much fun, got married, had my first little boy. This prompted me to sort my life out and i went back to college when he was a year old (part time juggling parenting and study).

Then i had baby number two, another boy. and i started university when he was a year old. Soon got divorced and became an entirely single parent, no involvement from their father at all, and over an hours drive away from any family help.

Yet still i somehow managed to get through my three year undergrad ad come out with a first class hons degree and two happy healthy little boys.

They are now 5 and 7 and i am due to begin my phd any time now! :D

Haz

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