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sweetheart · 05/09/2005 20:34

It was my dd's first day back to school today - starting year R.

She was very excited about going. It came to brekfast and she started moaning that she didn't want to eat it. I told her she had to eat something before school - got cross with her messing about and forced her to eat some. 2 mins later she was sick.

Anyway, she seemed OK - no temp or anything, so I took her into school and explained the situation to her teacher and said to call me if she was unwell.

She stayed at school all day - ate her lunch and came out with a beaming smile and lots of news about her first day back.

She had a snack after school and a small sleep.

At tea time she maoned and said she felt sick and didn't want her tea. I told her she had to go to bed if she was unwell and if she doesn't eat her breakfast she can't go to school.

I'm in two minds about what to do. I don't want her to get the message she can easily get a day off school but I'm not sure why she wouldn't eat her tea. She's not the best eater and I'm worried this may be the start of something. When she is sick it takes her a while to get the courage to eat anything again.

Any ideas?? Is it just a ploy to avoid her dinner??????

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
starlover · 05/09/2005 21:12

i wouldn'tmake an issue of it at all. not unless it keeps on happening.
just get her up as usual in the morning and offer her breakfast et.... see how it goes

debutante · 05/09/2005 21:13

Is it a ploy to make sure they are getting plenty of attention from you? Not perhaps deliberately - they probably are excited . Try playing it down as much as possible and see what happens.

soapbox · 05/09/2005 22:29

I suspect that she was a bit nervous this morning so wasn't very hungry and the fact you made a bit of a fuss of her stuck in her brain.

Then, although she enjoyed school, she no doubt missed you very much today and playing up at tea time was her way of getting some attention from you!

I agree with the others, totally ignore it. She will be much more likely to develop a phobia about eating if a fuss if made than if you stay silent. Children of her age rarely starve themselves

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