Any lone parents who've done nurse training?

[nowherewoman]

How hard was it? I really want to do it but think I should probably wait a couple of years until ds is in school. If anyone could share their experience, I'd be very grateful.

I can't be the only one can I?

Bump?

Hello,

No experience of your situation I'm afraid but thought I'd post anyway

I'm sure you already know that student nurses have to be prepared to work all shifts (earlies, lates, nights) all through the week, including weekends. Some placements are more family friendly than others but generally you need to be prepared to work 24/7 whilst on placement.

I know lone parents who have managed it without too much problem (although they had to be ultra organised). They all had bombproof childcare. Two used au pairs and others have very supportive family. One student has a very complicated mix of childcare arrangements but she does muddle through.

The diploma gives you a non-means tested bursary which can be useful when paying childcare costs.

Good luck. It can be done!

Forgot to say....I know many who would say it is easier when they are pre-school as there is nursery provision all day if required, where as once they're at school they might need before school and after school care.

Having said that, only you know if you're ready to put your son in childcare yet.

Hiya
I am a lone parent doing my nursing training. I started when the kids were pre schoolers although they are both at school now. Money wise its not too bad, you get extra allowances in your bursary for dependents and childcare and also you can claim housing benefit.

The biggest headache is childcare to cover the shifts when on placement. I am on a part time course, 3 days a week and the school hols off so its not too bad. I have a good childminder and I tend to work my shifts so that I do a late/early back to back and then they can stay at their dads. You will need a a good support system in place to cover your shifts. If youve got that covered you should be ok. Im so glad Im doing it, even if it is hard work.

Good Luck!