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Dd hates car rides

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KatieLunn · 14/08/2010 16:01

Does anyone else have a baby who hates rides in the car? My 4-month old will scream and writhe in every journey unless we put her in while she's asleep.

If she's asleep, she'll stay sleeping for a good 90 minutes. If we put her in awake, she would scream for 90 minutes. How on earth do we keep her happy? My DH thinks we have to let her CIO until she gets used to the car...

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Hopefully · 14/08/2010 16:34

My DS hated the car as a little baby. From newborn until about (and I apologise for this bit of news) 12 months, he screamed for the entire journey when we went anywhere in the car.

I don't know if he was car sick (he is still rear facing now at 23 months and doesn't seem to suffer) or what, but he hated it, and used to make himself sick screaming relatively regularly.

At around 12 months it started to improve - if we left at nap time, he would have a little snooze in the car (then start screaming), and for short journeys he wouldn't scream.

Even now he only tolerates it, rather than being happy, and is not a great coper if we get stuck in traffic, but he is a million times better than he used to be.

As DS began to improve, we could get 30-40 good minutes, so broke up long journeys (e.g. to my parents, 3 hours away) into several chunks, with long breaks at service stations etc in between. It meant travelling took bloody ages, but was less stressful. We also sometimes used to travel at night, rocking him to sleep in car seat before we left.

But mainly, we suffered until he improved Grin

KatieLunn · 14/08/2010 19:56

Noooo! sigh Well, as long as she is a willing passenger by the time she's 8 I guess.

Nice tip about breaking up journeys - thanks!

I get so jealous of people with kids that fall asleep in the car.

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grumpykat25 · 18/08/2010 14:08

My dd HATED her car seat, and screamed whenever we went anywhere, for most, if not all, of the journey.
This randomly stopped about, ooh, a month ago? She's now 6 months old.....
Hope you get the same result!

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ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 18/08/2010 14:57

DS really hated it. It was about five months that he started to be distractible (best think was sheet of shiny crinkly plasticised wrapping paper) and then he did gradually get over it.

He is a really good traveller now, though, and has been for years -- whereas many of the perfect traveller babies started to kick off about car journeys when they got to the toddler years. And DD wasn't keen on the car as a small baby but was so much better than DS had been that we could shrug it off relatively easily.

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