Hi, I am a newbie to this but would seriously appreciate some peoples views
I have two children, one aged seven, girl and one aged five, boy.
They are both quite sensitive the seven year old more then the five.
My neighbours grandaughter is always in her nans, I don't think her mother has many friends so is constantly at her mothers. I feel awful for saying this but I am seriously considering looking for a 666 on the little girls head.
She is also five and such a bully its unbeliveable, this has been going on for around 3 years now, she constantly screams in my childrens faces, is rude to me, comes in my garden and refuses to leave, I have had to physically remove her because she keeps screaming NO I WANT TO STAY HERE, her parents have seen and heard this but yet both parents and grandparents saying nothing to her.
I feel I have let the problem escalate, I am friendly with both the grandmother and the daughter however, I feel awkward saying anything that they may take as me calling them bad parents......... I am tempted mind.
This little girl once threw a scooter at my boy hitting him in the face, on purpose, no punishment.
She hits out constantly and as I have mentioned screams in their faces on a regular basis, she always wants things her way or no way, she gets everybody to stop playing with them and if they stick for themselves she lashes out.
My daughter has had plenty of run in's with her, chunks of hair, scrams, being pushed, scooters rammed into both of them, name callings, it is seriously beyond at times. Parents don't even give her a row
There are so many things to put but I would be here hours if I wrote it all down. Well today came to ahead, my dd was inside luckily just my ds out playing, she had all the kids running away from him so I shouted for him to come in and not play with them anymore if they are going to be nasty, I told him I would take him to the park.
On returning she wasn't here thankfully but I had told my children they were no longer allowed to play with her as she isn't the sort of child they want to be playing with, she is a nasty piece of work.
My ds was out playing with another child when here she comes, my ds told her he was not allowed to play with her anymore and she asked well no she never asks she screamed WHY!!!!, so he replied because my mother said.
The nan pipes up and says why cant you play anymore to which he replied because she is nasty and runs away from me all the time and stops other kids playing, the nan said oh that was earlier now its ok you can all play together now. this kid then proceeded to enter my garden, my son told her he wasn't allowed to play so get out of my garden, the nan pipes up again yes you are.
I though HELLOOOOO my child, my garden surely thats my decision, we ds had decided they could play at that point so I felt awful if I went out and pushed it further.
Any advice please, I am seriously at breaking point here :0(
Thanks