Hi Leah4, I have lived in S Harrow for the past five years since I got married.
I like it here, we are close to the tube station, good shopping (Waitrose, Sainsbury, Woolies, with opticians, chemist, banks/bldng socs, post office) - pretty much everything you could want. It's going slightly more upmarket dare I say - there are a couple of outdoor cafes, a Nandos, and a Subway
My ds went to a local pre-school playgroup which was OK - he was very happy there, but in my part of S Harrow there weren't many that had good Ofsted reports - the same goes for state primaries hence ds1 will be starting state nursery in Rayners Lane. Having said that there is one excellent but small state primary, Newton Farm, which we unfortunately are not in the catchment area for.
There are some parks near us, and if you drive a Whacky Wharehouse (if you like that sort of thing) and a David Lloyd Health Club - right near to where that young Sri Lankan girl was raped and murdered - but that is in Sudbury Hill.
According to the Ofsted reports for local schools - can't remember what year - it is actually designated as an area of social deprivation. There are a lot of families where English is the second language and it seems to be a centre for the Sri Lankan community, which makes it excellent for ethnic food shopping.
Can't think what else to tell you - it does feel safe to me and there are lots of different ethnic groups, but the local paper often has some scary crime stories. As I said I like it here, there is a community feel and we have never, thank God, had any bad experiences.
But, not having grown up here myself I don't have a feel what the nearby areas are like.