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The new mother and The Wright stuff: a modern fairytale

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notarealname · 12/02/2010 14:07

At home with a new baby. Fatigued by chronic lack of sleep, and perhaps still in pain from a difficult delivery. Nursing happens every two hours, perhaps lasts an hour - in between, the baby falls asleep in your arms and wakes the second you try to detach: it needs that warmth from your body. Alone, unable to move easily, and with no-one to talk to for the largest part of the day, you reach for the remote.

What better than The Wright Stuff? An easy-on-the eye, easy-on-the-ear current affairs and debate show, filled with lively celebrity guests and an audience both in the studio and by phone from home, all willing to engage in any topic from all angles.

Well, not exactly. That's the end of the fairytale. A regular feature of the show is the stereotyping of "stay-at-home mums" - the moniker preferred by dominant culture: note the passive, ambitionless aftertaste. Today, for example, a statistic on how much time these creatures spend on the internet vs housework. Another day, with a knowing glare into the camera, its presenter makes a jibe to the stay-at-home mum who is, audaciously, watching the show with her feet up and a cup of tea.

How dare she sit down? Even have the presence of mind to enjoy that moment with a hot drink. Imagine!

Perhaps we shouldn't really expect more than lowest common denominator from a presenter who used to write for The Sun and The Daily Mirror. When challenged in his views, Matthew Wright rarely condescends to allow his interlocutor a platform. This is his show. He opens up debates within limited dominant paradigms, and refuses to entertain or engage in debate beyond those borders. If the panel don't know that the first time they appear, and actually possess the ability for original thought, you see the realisation dawn on them as he corrals them into the Wright Stuff "Yes Sir, no Sir" dynamic.

But as mothers caring full-time for their children are a significant portion of the show's demographic, how could it legitimately persist in its obsession with attacking them? I believe it says something about the powerlessness this demographic feel against this type of dominant stereotyping so prevalent in our mass media. As viewers, we should demand more.

But how could the show be improved? With a product as clearly structured as this daytime talkshow is, seeking fundamental change would be an exercise in futility. The obvious solution? Switch over or off. That would get them talking at Channel Five.

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mountainmonkey · 12/02/2010 17:08

I completely agree! The way Matthew Wright conducts his show is really annoying - he seems to just talk over anybody who disagrees with his opinion, or he tells them to shut up! He, as a "non-breeder" has a real attitude problem and no concept of what its like to be a parent. He seems to think that people have children so that they can claim government hand outs and have an excuse to sit around the house doing nothing. What he doesn't seem to realise is that being a good parent is a full time round the clock job and that people have children because its normal and natural to want to reproduce. And what's wrong with wanting to stay at home and look after your children? Its either that or pay for someone else to do it! Wanting to be a good mother is a valid life ambition.

Daytime tv is ok in short bursts but really we should take control and switch off if the content is not up to standard.

potplant · 12/02/2010 17:12

I used to love this when I was on ML. It was on at the same time as DTs nap time. My brain couldn't have coped with anything more stimulating.

Although it was crap last time I watched it so its either done downhill a LOT or my standards have improved as I'm not so sleep deprived.

thedollshouse · 12/02/2010 17:16

You are quite right. I used to enjoy the show but I am now finding myself switching off after the first 5 minutes. I like that Dominic guy who was on the panel this week.

bibbitybobbityhat · 12/02/2010 17:25

Oh I quite like it. His guests keep on coming back for more. I watch the segment with the guests going through the papers a few times a week but not the phone-in segment.

Matthew Wright has his tongue firmly in his cheek a lot of the time and he knows when he has overstepped the mark. He is quite right on about some things .

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