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Strangers giving money to your kids..........

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Gwenick · 16/06/2005 15:36

how do you react??

I know that sound really 'dodgy' but it's not. DS2 (18 months) LOVES waving at people as we're out and about with him in his pushchair. Was on the way back from picking DS1 up from nursery and he was waving furiously at a middle aged man - who then waved back...he went to walk on his way, then stopped asked what the boys names were and said "that's the 2nd time he's waved to me - how lovely".......and proceed to fish some money out of his pocket saying "Next time you see the icecream van you get them one each"......

I told him he REALLY didn't need to do that, but he was adamant, and despite my protestations (embarassment mainly!) gave them £2 EACH!!

I thanked him profusely and he disappeared on his way, with a big smile on his face.

How do YOU react in the situations?? I've had people offer a sweet (after asking me) to them before, and I can 'cope' with that, but £4 to buy them something was a really awkward situation.

Anyone else had the same happen to them and how do you react??

PS I'm not 'angry', 'annoyed' or anything like that, as it was obvious that it was just a 'natural' thing for him to do.

He spoke with a Caribbean accent (not sure if that's relevant) so don't know if it's a cultural type thing either!

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Angeliz · 16/06/2005 21:17

Haven't read all the thread but this happened to me a few weeks ago.
I had new baby in the pram and dd2 (aged4) was being very helpful and cute and the man behind me in the qeueue gave her 50p and said what a good girl she was for mammy and how helpful. (He was an older guy in builders type clothes and reminded me of my dad).
We thanked him and he was obviously chuffed to bits.
I later explained to dd that it was o.k as Mammy was there with her telling her it was o;k. Not sure how much she took in though TBH!
It is a risk i suppose but i really do fel on the other hand the world is going totally the other way and we're gonna have people scared to even talk to kids and i think that would be sad.
I'm the first to chat away to strangers.

The thing they do alot up here is give money to newborns but they have to touch their hand with it. It's o.k when they did it with new baby on top of scratchmit but one student in dd2's class went to remove dd2's mit and rub filthy money on her hand when she was only tiny and i wasn't using soap or anything.
There i drew the line.

{grin}

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