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Horrible experience in Tesco

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Dahlia · 18/05/2003 20:49

Sorry, this is a long rant, but I need sympathy and understanding! Went to Tesco on Friday, bought a toothbrush for dd which is battery operated, big signs on it saying reduced from £4 odd to £2. Got home and checked through receipt only to find I had been charged £7.99. So after picking dd (age 7) up from school went back to Tesco to get balance refunded. Went to Customer Service and the woman was serving a queue of people on the next counter which is the photo counter. She looked at me like I was in the wrong place and said "Yes?" So slightly flustered I said I needed assistance, so she came over and I briefly explained the situation. She said oh, those sort of toothbrushes are about £8, and I said no, they had reduced signs all over them, so she came from behind the counter and went to look. Because she still had a queue at the photo counter I followed her to point out where the toothbrushes were to save her some time, and sure enough, she had walked straight past them to the end of the aisle, so I called out loudly excuse me, excuse me! They're here! and pointed to them. She stalked back to me with a glare on her face and said something like 'there's no need to be so rude, I'm not deaf and I don't take kindly to being yelled at blah blah blah' or words to that effect. I was gobsmacked, she looked so angry - I could feel myself start shaking (bear in mind I am 35 weeks, AND I had dd with me who is a very sensitive little soul) I said I wasn't being rude, I was merely trying to help her and point out the toothbrush as she had gone past it, and she carried on saying yeah well you shouldn't be this and that and the other, and then I lost it, and started crying, so then she calmed down slightly and started muttering excuses and took a toothbrush off the shelf and walked back to the counter, she then started putting it through the till and faffing about, and then said "I can see you're annoyed" I was still crying and shaking, and I said I wasn't annoyed, I was upset, and I just wanted the balance back, I didn't want a second toothbrush, but she didn't even listen to me, and other customers were staring and I felt absolutely humiliated and distraught and dd was staring up at me looking worried, and then this stupid bitch calls to another member of staff and mutters "I think I've upset this lady," and the next thing they were handing me a bunch of flowers off the flower stand nearby, and i was saying look, I just want my refund, and bitchface said I'm sorry, I didn't mean to snap, I've had a stressful day, so because I am nice I said oh, never mind, don't worry etc etc, and then just legged it with my second toothbrush that I didn't want and my crappy flowers and dd who was trying to be brave. Once I got in the car I just sobbed my heart out, and I couldn't stop til way after I got home, then when dh got home I burst into tears again whilst telling him. I have today written to the chief executive of tesco telling him I am not impressed because the more I think about it the more incensed I become. The worst thing was that dd was with me and I HATE her seeing me upset. And I wouldn't f*cking mind but I wasn't even rude to the stupid cow, I was just trying to help. So I need some nice mumsnet sympathy because I am feeling very sorry for myself!

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Tissy · 20/05/2003 11:31

Marina, that's awful

I have difficulty imagining what you could have done to that bloke to make it worth a death threat- fined him for a late return? He's clearly mentally unhinged. I hope your employers send the police round to him.

edgarcat · 20/05/2003 11:32

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CAM · 20/05/2003 12:12

Good God Marina it's enough to make you despair of people. What action is being taken?

Mum2Toby · 20/05/2003 12:28

Good on you for following this up, if more people reported situations like this then perhaps staff would be deterred from behaving like this.

My DP works in Tesco although he's not in a customer facing role. He was horrified when I told him about this and says that it will be dealt with quite strictly.... so go for it BIG time.

Copper · 20/05/2003 12:32

Marina
thats absolutley appalling. What has happened since?

Marina · 20/05/2003 13:00

Dahlia, keep us posted, I hope you get a good reply from Tescos before too long, you deserve it.
My employers are taking the matter seriously and investigating it, but because we all work in an environment where behaviour like this is not the norm, they have no sensible policies in place so seem to be making it up as they go. The user from whom the mail was sent is the sort of amiable dozy cod who sometimes forgets to log off when finished...leaving their account wide open to abuse on this occasion. I don't think it was her...yes, the mail seemed to come from another woman, which somehow made it worse. Soldiering on but watching my back, thanks all

edgarcat · 20/05/2003 13:19

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Mum2Toby · 20/05/2003 13:31

Edgarcat

edgarcat · 20/05/2003 13:33

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tigermoth · 20/05/2003 19:00

marina, hope you feel as protected as you deserve to be. Sounds like your employer's ramshackle policies need attention.

Tigger2 · 20/05/2003 21:23

Dahlai firstly, cheeky old b should have had her arse filled with fresh flowers along with the toothbrush!

Marina, can the police help in this matter?

chanelno5 · 21/05/2003 10:49

Marina - Why on earth would someone want to send you an email like that? I don't understand the mentality of some people.

Agree with Tigger2, shouldn't the police be involved, as a death threat is rather more serious than just an insulting email?

Take care of yourself and roll on your maternity leave, eh!

cerys · 21/05/2003 10:54

I have been reading this thread and getting more and more horrified and incredulous.

Dahlia - lots of sympathy and I hope the chief exec replies and is suitably apologetic.

Marina - I really hope they can take this further. How traumatic for you - are you feeling OK? How much longer until your maternity leave?

Tigermoth and Meid - outrageous!

Copper - I have been spoken to in a similar way only I wasn't in such difficult circumstances (I'm a librarian too).That woman was spectacularly rude and unkind. You can only hope someone makes her feel as bad one day.

Ghosty · 21/05/2003 10:58

This is all so shocking ... I have just caught up and seen what happened to you Marina ... it's bad enough that people like Dahlia and others are made to cry by arsy shop assistants ... but Death threats?
Poor you Marina .. you have had enough to cope with in the last year. I am thinking of you.
Dahlia ... how are you doing?

Dahlia · 23/05/2003 15:34

Well I had my reply from Tesco this morning - not from the Chief Exec, as he is away, surprise surprise but anyway, it was a nice apologetic letter and said the assistant had been spoken to - the actual wording was something like "suffice to say the individual concerned has been spoken to and we are confident that this sort of situation will never arise again" etc etc, and it said they will review their procedures in employing staff. No vouchers though!! But to be honest, I didn't want any, just a decent apology. The way it was worded really made it sound like the woman has been totally bollocked and that is good enough for me. But get this, I did my tesco shop this week on tesco.com as I couldn't face going in, and when it came this morning they had cocked it up! Even the driver commented saying he had not had any problems with anyone else's order today- I told him my story and said I was getting paranoid now that it was personal, and he was a total sweetie and went straight back to the store and got it all sorted and brought the right stuff back with extra cream cakes for me! So I phoned tesco.com and told them he is fab. See, I can't help myself, I'm too soft. But anyway, thanks loads for all the nice messages, and Marina, I hope the investigation continues and they find the person responsible.

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Marina · 23/05/2003 15:42

They replied quickly, didn't they - and it sounds like a good letter. Glad you heard from them Dahlia, and their delivery driver did a bit to restore their good name in your house!
My investigation is ongoing, thanks for asking. As I have been at my desk all week and am still not dead I am feeling a bit less horrified by it all, and it has placed me in a stronger position to argue the case for proper procedures for staff harassment etc here. Everyone dealing with this incident is mortified they have not been able to catch the culprit yet and I am holding my bump, quivering my lip and MILKING it for all I am worth.

Carmel · 23/05/2003 16:19

Me and my partner are both students so we obviously dont have much money and are not yet ready to get a mortgage. This is why we rent above a shop, not because we are dumb wasters! If only the shop managers could work that one out. When i was pregnant they came into my little yard and sealed it with tar! They forgot to mention this to us so when i sat my child on the floor to take his wellies off he got covered in this lethal, dangerous substance. I ran down the stairs to have a hormonal rage and when i confronted the manager he said people like you aren't bothered about there gardens. That was the end of that, my bottle went, he made me feel like i shouldn't be complaining. I did nothing ! A week later i then brought some chicken , when i got home it was 7 days out of date. Thank God we noticed i dont fancy eating rancid chicken while pregnant! Anyway my point is i did nothing about these incidents and its nice to see Dahlia sticking to her guns and not taking any S**t! Something i never do! There a lots of incidents when i dont say what i want to ( a horrible incident with ds school teacher)im not like that at all with friends or family just certain figures intimidate me. So well done im very pleased they replied!

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