I am working at a local convenience shop in my village evenings several nights a week. Been doing it a month, loads of people are regulars and I get on really well with everyone. There are some funny pervy old men I joke with and we have a bit of a laugh etc I do just adore cranky old men.
Anyway there is one guy - not old he is around 35ish. He fancies the hell out of me and it is blatantly obvious. He did a double take my first night there and said "you werent here last saturday!" then carried on in that vein. He comes 3 or 4 times a shift some nights and every night. He really really fancies me. He always comments on what I am wearing, how lovely I look etc. At first I felt it was funny he was a nice guy, bit socially inept and had a little crush on me but harmless. Now the questions he is asking and how he is behaving is freaking me out a tad bit.
My last shift he said out of the blue "I guess your husbands off down the pub every night" trying to either suss out if I am married or get me to bitch about my DH. I said, um, no, he is at home with my son! He always comments on my schedule trying to work out which days I work. He stares at my breasts non stop. But lately he will just stand there with may I add people behind him in the queue looking at me with this weird goofy grin on his face making the transaction of whatever he is buying painfully slow or just not walking off after he has had his change. And he is always asking weird personal questions.
Tonight he said "I bet your son is really bored at home without you" and I was like and I said "well no he is at home with his Dad and anyway is likely asleep now..." I mean he is 3 fgs I am not going to leave him home alone while I work! Then he said immediately I had that sentence out of my mouth "you leave at 10 every night? tonight too?" the shop closes at 10. I was really uncomfortable and just said yes we close at 10.
I dont drive, I get a lift home nearly every night from work only occassionally I work with someone who doesnt drive then I walk & its a 20 min walk home. I just feel really creeped out by him. Tonight the woman behind him was like scraping her jaw off the floor and stared at him as he left and said "my god he fancies you" I said "I know its getting a bit awkward" and the girl I work with said "he doesnt take his eyes off your tits"
How should I diffuse this a little? I dont want to overreact. If he just did the flirty stuff I would brush it off but it is the always clarifying what days I work and time I leave combined with his lack of awareness of social norms that worries me. I even had a nightmare with him in it last night