Does anyone else think this is ponce-tastic or am I just an out of touch northern bumpkin?

[MadreInglese]

Went to a birthday party at the weekend, it was a great do but nothing posh, just a sports club bar with a little dancefloor, cheesy DJ and cheesy buffet

As we arrived (a bit early to help set up - carrying a large box of decorations) a childhood family friend introduced me to her housemate who stood for ages smiling at me until I realised she was holding out her hand (my view was slightly obstructed by the mahoosive box I was holding). No-where to put the box so I kind of did a funny wiggle with one arm and managed to shake her hand while trying not to drop the box. She then shook my mum's hand and then DD's (who is 11)

Wasn't expecting a hug and a kiss-kiss from a stranger but isn't hand shaking a bit poncey unless you're a blokey bloke or in a business situ?

I think it is nice she shook your daughter's hand and didn't ignore her.

Heh @ people who don't let go! I wonder if they are awaiting a firm shake back. It is all just wierd, because really, why shake someones hand!!!? It is just wierd...like I know it is formal and a custom and stuff, but WHY? I just don't get it!

I think it depends on where you live in the country and also the age of the person who wants to hold your hand.

It shows a lot of respect to shake hands with a little old man in his shirt and tie for example, more than some random lady in a sports hall.

Next time, tell them your just getting over swine flu and its your first night out. Ha ha

No handshakes over here in Brazil (except among blokes), just kisses all round.

But then depending on what part of the country you come from its 1, 2 or 3 kisses. Inevitably someone is left 'hanging' with their cheek in the air waiting for another smooch...

Oh bloody hell...I am never going to Brazil! I would have a panic attack for sure worrying about the number of kisses, and everything to do with kisses!