batey - do you review incidents according to something like the ABC method
A stands for Antecedents: prompts, stimuli, cues, etc. which precede the behaviour.
B stands for Behaviour, which may be unwanted behaviour we wish to reduce in frequency, or wanted behaviour we believe will add to the client's quality of life.
C stands for Consequence, that which happens after the behaviour has occurred and will either serve to increase the likelihood of the behaviour (reinforcement) or reduce the likelihood of the behaviour; consequences can be ones which we have determined should occur, or may be naturally occurring consequences that have served to influence the frequency of the behaviour.
I find that a useful method for problems at home, and it was something I tried to encourage at his mainstream school (which didn't go down very well ). I know whenever there are behavioural problems now the school do spend quite a bit of time trying to identify triggers, and think about consequences. sometimes these can be a very different- for example they wanted to stop him running off during circle time to fiddle with door handles, so they made him a board with lots of door handles, then once he was in one place, faded the door handles- now he sits through circle time almost all the time and is even beginning to enjoy it.
think outside the box..... we've just solved a behaviour problem at home this morning using this method. he was stripping off and weeing on the floor. We couldn't find trousers that he couldn't get off, but we could find a top he can't get off. as he can't strip off completely - no weeing.
the problem the m/s school often had was that they seemed to want to "punish" him for bad behaviour- but all "normal" punishments are very reinforcing for my son- he loves being shouted at, he feels no shame, cabn't understand star charts- I had a hard time convincing them they needed to think about responses that would reduce inappropriate behaviour rather than punish him iywswim..