My other half is driving me mad at the moment - I am main earner and have turned down 2 jobs in last 2 months for v good reasons - one co went bust and second was in 116 degrees in middle east and would not support health etc for hub and daughter.
He still despite not working for 5 years pushes all the pressure onto myself (despite being 7 yrs older and at 45 feeling pretty work jaded). Keeps saying when daughter goes to school full time in September things will change but so far we have discussed 6 different self start careers (he was in fine art which does not pay or never did) and he has done nothing.
I am so sad - both my parents are dead and I really hate the idea of divorce but I feel like I am 60. I had to mention 4 times today for him to link up Messenger so his daughter could speak to his mother. This after 2 months of it breaking down - this is just an example. I cannot carry on with someone who just is not interested in doing anything. He enjoys a gossip at the school gate and driving our German car around and that's it.
Please don't say counselling - Beeline