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beeline · 20/04/2009 15:41

We are very lucky to live in the epicentre of wonderful child rearing patch in S.East, and my daughter has now gathered by the age of 4 an impressive array of little chums.

The problem is bar two or three other parents(one spends weekends in another part of the UK and the others are either weekending in Nantucket or redecorating the bathroom again), we don't seem to have linked into any form of social life ourselves.

In the west country where we used to live there was always something going on ie county events etc, but in surburbia it is v. dull. I probably don't help by being a working mother, but my husband has made a really huge effort and is on text relationships with 10 other Mums/Dads - its just all about the kids...

All we want to do is have a chilled weekend lunch party - but am really nearly too tired with mentioning in passing to making the effort now....

Any thoughts appreciated...

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marymungoandmidge · 20/04/2009 15:52

Well you have to formally invite some folks over then....I notice that with several other Mums we are always saying, 'oh we should get together...' but rarely do, whereas some make a point of inviting you to various suppers/playdates/weekend lunches etc. I've taken a leaf out of their book - make an effort to formally invite, and those that really want to strike up a friendship will accept.

MaureenMLove · 20/04/2009 15:55

With the summer on it's way, you need to combine both children and adults in a weekend bbq or something. That way, you can start off by it being about getting the kids together and you adults can have a little drink, start to get to know each other and it'll snowball from there, I'm sure.

beeline · 20/04/2009 16:23

Thank you to you both for this great advice -agree that formal dated invites probably have to be extended, and those that want will. Not sure about barbies - would love to revisit, but with 4 yr olds - safety a bit hairy..

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