Am having lunch with mil tomorrow, we have not seen nor spoken to one another in 8 months since she slagged off me and my family while we were on holiday - she knew I could hear through the paper thin walls but wouldn't dare say ahything to my face.
T'was all lies but she has since made up things that she has now repeated so many times that I think she actually believes them now. She has tried to convince dp that these things are true but thank goodness he knows she is a loon and completely believes me.
Dp cut her off for a long time but has slowly upped his contact with her so I am only seeing her for his sake. We are getting married this year and his family are so dysfunctional that his parents are about the only people we have invited.
She has a terrible martyr complex, if she doesn't get her way one of her conditions starts to play up or she makes up lies to pitch herself as the victim.
Just looking for sympathy if I'm honest, I can't bear the thought that she feels she has a hold on my dd when she doesn't give a toss about her and just wants to play the doting granny, held back by her evil dd.
I tried so bloody hard after dd was born despite mil treating me like crap for years as I hoped that now we had a link through my dd we might be able to have a relationship but it has all been thrown back in my face.
Need a scream aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh!