...or do I just shut up and put up?
She is 21 and from South Korea.
She is lovely, polite and well mannered. But, she can not get her arse out of bed on a morning so it falls to me to shout her 2/3 times to make sure she is awake and not late fro college. I have a dog to walk, a child to get to school and a job to get to so do not want to also be responsible for getting her up.
She has not yet made herself 1 cup of tea/coffee in 4 weeks, yet if I offer to make to happily accepts.
She clears her plates after dinner then leaves the kitchen. Not once has she offerred to help/wash up etc etc.
I know I am her host family, but if my daughter was 21 she would help clear and wash up after dinner and at leats make her own bloody coffee.
Should I leave it or have a discussion with her? She is here for another 5 months btw....