My niece quit her final year of uni, no one knows why. She was a straight A student and one of the brightest young people I know. She lives in the NE and for the last 2 years has been claiming benefits and PIP.
Her partner is training to be a teacher, via the Teach First programme.
They rent a 3 bed semi and drive a 69 plate car.
Over the last few weeks they have been travelling round Europe and visited us on the way home.
They stayed 3 days and used their time to go off and visit various tourist attractions, none of which are cheap.
There is absolutely no way you could do this in the South, where rents would be several times higher.
My niece claims to be depressed and is now searching for an autism/ ADHD diagnosis. She seems to be very content with her lot and I was shocked how bubbly she is. I appreciate things can be masked, but surely if you can spend weeks travelling and having fun, there is no evidence of clinical depression.
When they left I felt flat. Something is just not right here.
Is this more common than we realise? Are we potentially going to be taxed even higher, so my neice can continue her extravagant lifestyle.
I love her deeply and understand that something triggered her leaving uni. But she genuinely seems content in her decisions.
Am I wrong in feeling slightly irritated?