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Do you colour code your children?

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nmhermione · 03/03/2026 14:23

When my son was born, we chose green as a theme colour for his room, his birth announcement (a non-UK tradition where we send friends & family a card announcing his name, birth, weight, etc.), etc. We weren't obsessive about this in any way, he has clothes and toys in all colours. Then we bought new suitcases and I automatically chose green for him, pink for myself (I usually get pink accessories) and blue for my husband, so we can immediately see which is which. Then we got individual laundry baskets, and again I chose them in the same colours, it just seemed to make sense.

I'm expecting my second child, and almost without realising I was doing it, I've already 'assigned' him a colour. I've already bought a suitcase and laundry basket matching his colour. And I've bought matching cups & plates for both my toddler & baby in 'their' colour. I can already see buying them colour coded towels, phone chargers, and other things as they get older.

Am I crazy or does this make sense? I feel like we will avoid some arguments about who left their towel on the floor, and everyone will know which cup is theirs etc. I don't want it to be restrictive in any way, for example clothes and shoes should be any colour they want, but I feel it can help to colour code some things.

Does anyone else do this?

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Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 03/03/2026 17:12

PineappleMelon · 03/03/2026 15:49

Is Thursday purple and Saturday yellow?

Wednesday is purple, Thursday is yellow and Saturday is black. Whats your other days colour?

JustAnotherWhinger · 03/03/2026 17:18

With our twin girls I sort of did, but for nursery and school and more to help the staff than us (although it was handy). They are not identical, but look very very alike so until the staff got used to which was which we had hair bobbles and bags in a set colour each. Later in primary they ended up in different classes so we stopped then.

The only colour coding in the house now is towel pegs in the bathroom. That wasn’t done by choice of colour but by initial, Gemma = Green, Bella = Blue, Ruby = Red, Will = White type thing. I brought that in to stop towels going into the wash after one use or disappearing into bedrooms never to be seen again

TheGoodEnoughWife · 03/03/2026 17:20

How silly some people are with being so quick to declare that they use names for their children or that the children will push back from being so ‘constrained’!

We did this. The children gravitated to a certain colour and then when we had the choice we would buy in that colour. Worked really well with everyone knowing what was theirs. Far from causing arguments it kept things calm and the children had proper ownership of their stuff.

One has stayed with the same colour mostly till adulthood whereas the other two have changed a bit but none of them seem traumatised from the experience!

Dorrieisalittlewitch · 03/03/2026 17:24

Yes but only once they were old enough to express it themselves. Ds always picks red. Dd is teal. It helps as they both do a lot of outdoor activities/camping etc so having red/teal torches/bags/towels/tooth brushes/waterbottles etc definitely makes life easier

NoCareNoFair · 03/03/2026 17:36

My parents colour coded us and them (Yellow, Green, Pink and Blue. I was the second daughter and my colour was and still is blue. My children (boys) assigned themselves colours of red and green. It is also useful for playing board games! DH doesn't have a colour so just had whatever is leftover.

MrsBenevolent · 03/03/2026 22:09

nmhermione · 03/03/2026 15:28

That's amazing! Do they still have a slight preference for their colour to this day?

I wouldn't call it slight, no. They consistently default to their colours for toothbrush, towel, flannel, stationery etc (green, blue, yellow, purple, red and orange).

I did not anticipate that! I just did it for ease when they were all tiny.

CuttingNails · 03/03/2026 22:18

Oh I love this OP. It's something I wished I'd thought of, but it's far too late now.

Although I find I'm almost scared to start systems like this - because once I've started a system I will doggedly try to stick to it forever regardless of the consequences! The system becomes more important than the items and people within it!

It sounds like you have a good balance thoe OP.

marcyhermit · 03/03/2026 22:29

Only for socks as they wear hand-me-downs.

YorkStories · 03/03/2026 22:36

I did this for my 4 kids throughout their childhood. It wasn’t a super strict rule but we often used it.

NotVWoolf · 03/03/2026 22:53

Yes. Eldest girl pink, eldest boy blue, youngest boy green, youngest girl yellow. Saved a lot of time and avoided arguments.

Hellohelga · 03/03/2026 23:11

I think it’s cute - towels, flannels, good for identifying correct pants…

Delphinium20 · 03/03/2026 23:24

My mother did this. We each had our own color. We are all middle aged now and I still buy DSIs gifts in their themed shades.

SummerbodyIwish · 03/03/2026 23:59

School socks. DS1 black. DS2 grey

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