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ImFlossie3 · 16/10/2025 23:25

I am sorry if this is in the wrong section.
We have a couple living next door with a little girl, aged around 2–3. A few months ago, we heard her screaming—not crying, but a terrified, painful-sounding scream that went on for about 20 minutes.
This evening, just after the dad left for work, I heard the child crying again. She sounded really distressed and was repeatedly saying “Please stop, please don’t do it, please don’t!” to whoever was with her. it could have been something simple like having her hair washed or it could have been something worse, I don't know.
This has left me really worried. I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but it didn’t sound like a normal tantrum. I’m unsure what to do—should I report this? Has anyone been in a similar situation?

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Moresparecashplease · 16/10/2025 23:32

I think if you are concerned for this child's welfare you should report it to the social work department. I think the NSPCC has a help line as well.

ImFlossie3 · 16/10/2025 23:48

Both adults work and they keep very much to themselves. They’re quiet neighbours—no loud music or noise at all. If it wasn’t for occasionally hearing the child, you wouldn’t even know anyone lived there.

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wineosaurus4 · 16/10/2025 23:57

Gosh I have a 3 year old and this breaks my heart. Don’t ignore it, it may be nothing but imagine the alternative? I’d report it. It’s not the usual tantrum reaction, it’s the words she has used that make me feel really uneasy.

Littlenest88 · 17/10/2025 00:13

ImFlossie3 · 16/10/2025 23:25

I am sorry if this is in the wrong section.
We have a couple living next door with a little girl, aged around 2–3. A few months ago, we heard her screaming—not crying, but a terrified, painful-sounding scream that went on for about 20 minutes.
This evening, just after the dad left for work, I heard the child crying again. She sounded really distressed and was repeatedly saying “Please stop, please don’t do it, please don’t!” to whoever was with her. it could have been something simple like having her hair washed or it could have been something worse, I don't know.
This has left me really worried. I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but it didn’t sound like a normal tantrum. I’m unsure what to do—should I report this? Has anyone been in a similar situation?

In my experience, social workers usually need hard evidence before they can take action. Simply reporting what you hear verbally never leads to intervention, because parents could deny anything is happening! If authorities are contacted before there’s concrete evidence, it could put the parents on alert and lead them to hide or change their behaviour, which can make it harder to protect the child.
Words alone can be denied or twisted, so the safest thing is to audio record on your phone what you hear carefully with dates, times, exact words, and patterns. This gives authorities something concrete to work with and makes it much harder for anyone to twist the situation.

begonia27 · 17/10/2025 00:17

You can phone Childline and discuss your concerns with them. They can give you an honest opinion on what can be done and if needed initiate action. Your identity can be protected if you are concerned. It’s about building a full picture, you never know if the family are on the radar elsewhere and your information may be very valuable. Better to call than to wonder.

greenose · 17/10/2025 00:42

Report it, you can do it anonymous. Better to get it checked than not at all. If the parents are good people and looking after their child properly I’m sure they will be ok with people asking questions.
tne amount of abuse that slipps through the net, better to be safe than sorry ❤️

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