Im at a loss,
My daughter (22) had some friends on our estate she would go around thier place one night the mother was on night shift the dad got gave the girls alchol and raped my daughter, it went to court he go let off due to not enough evidence, bear in mind his dad is a big local business man and this said person gets away with alot of stuff, previous rape, steeling things drink driving drugs he some how gets away with it all.
Since then the whole family which consists of 4 kids will shout things out the window to my daughter and they are driving past or throw mcdonalds cups my daughter has reported this and noughing gets done!
Move forward 2 years my step daughter get into a relationship with the said person the rapen my daughter his son!
I explained to my partner that it was up to her what she does but obviously I wont have anything to do with him or his family.
So it comes to my sons birthday meal obviously I told my partner to ask his daughter, he said she probably wont come if her boyfriend isn't invited bear in mind he is the son of the person that raped my daughter and they have only been together 3 weeks.
I feel that if shoe was on the other foot my partner would act the same but I feel like he thinks im out of order, I dont know what to do for the best obviously my daughter would be at the meal so I wouldn't want his son thier, i know she would be upset.
My partner said well the father doing what he done to my daughter isn't down to his son but I hate the whole family what do i do am I wrong