for the last few months, mine and my mums relationship has been quite unhealthy. She doesn’t live near me so only see each other every few months when she comes to visit.
prior to this, we’ve always had quite a close relationship but always argued.
anyway, the last few months we have argued like never before and I’ve decided to go NC for the time being. She’s started to become VERY bossy, and dictating towards me when she’s visiting. She stays with us too.
my kids have such a good relationship with her, and I don’t want to spite my kids and she hasn’t done anything towards them. But, how do I keep this relationship between them when I have gone NC? My husband is currently doing it, but it’s not fair on him to be stuck in the middle.
anybody else been in the same situation and could shed some light?
thank you x