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Family - can’t get in touch been 2 months now

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stample · 30/08/2025 21:01

DM has many health issues and limited speech and communication due to her health. I have t lived with her for 11 years now as have my own family. We live miles apart, I visit when I can (once or twice a year) but try to speak to her on the phone regularly via video call as she finds this easier and nicer as she can see her DGC too.
I last spoke to her 2 months ago, closer to 3 tbh, I’ve called every week sometimes every other day but she doesn’t answer. I’ve text her and sent pics and seen the messages are read but she hasn’t got the capabilities to respond back. However, she does live with her husband who could msg back on her behalf but chooses not to because we don’t get along with each other.
I am getting to a point where do i check her local hospital to see if she’s been admitted or do I call the police to do a welfare check? Or does she just decided to go NC for some unknown reason. Last time we spoke everything was fine, I even wished her a happy anniversary to her husband but that msg was delivered but not read but pics sent afterwards were seen…

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User37482 · 30/08/2025 21:09

Call the police for a welfare check.

LochAndHeather · 30/08/2025 21:37

How far away do you live? Can you contact her husband or anyone else who lives near her?

stample · 30/08/2025 21:54

The only one who lives near enough is my dad her exh and he won’t call round at all unfortunately due to his now gf. I don’t have dms husbands phone number and I believe the landline has been unplugged

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Bigearringsbigsmile · 30/08/2025 21:56

How far away do you live???????

I would go snd see her!

lnks · 30/08/2025 21:57

I can’t believe it has been 2 months and you haven’t gone to her home.

stample · 30/08/2025 22:01

We live about 6 hour drive from each other, myself and husband work full time and kids are young. and I don’t actually drive myself

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Hairshare · 30/08/2025 22:06

If there's nobody who will go for you, I think you must find a way to go, OP. Anything might be happening, and if her DH won't speak to you, you won't know or be able to help.

Iloveagoodnap · 30/08/2025 22:33

Does your mum live where you grew up? Any old school friends you could ask to pop round to check on her?

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 30/08/2025 23:05

Police and welfare check

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 30/08/2025 23:06

I’m assuming you’ve tried texting and calling her husband saying you’re worried?

TartanMammy · 30/08/2025 23:06

You need to get a welfare check on her. Police or social services if you can't go yourself.

You haven't heard from her in months and you don't know if anyone has seen her in that time? Do you suspect her husband may have harmed her?

Kate8889 · 10/11/2025 10:51

Any updates op?

stample · 19/11/2025 20:00

Police wouldn’t do a welfare check as she wasn’t in danger, baffles me! .Messaged closer distance family member who tried to get in touch with no response. Eventually she called. Had an operation but was embarrassed about the outcome and was as such hiding away did t want to tell anyone. I completely understand but at a loss why she couldn’t let me know

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