So first time posting and I don't know where else to put this but need to write it somewhere. I am a 30 year old female and live with my 34 year old male and 3 wonderful children.
When I was pregnant with my eldest we up and moved 200 miles away (4 hour drive) from all of mine and hubby's family, plan was for it to be temporary and we'd have enough money when we moved back for a mortgage.
This didn't happen and have no way to move back. I work but my husband is full time carer to our autistic child so just we live comfortably enough but do have to budget.
The issue is whenever we see family for a day or 2 after I'm an emotional wreck because I love seeing them and then all of a sudden they're gone and I can just pop round whenever, it takes planning and at least a couple days off work.
Where family live is close to a sought after area so cannot afford to private rent, due to our situation it's very hard to save for a deposit and the local authority will not accept us on the housing register. Family do have room to have us stay at their houses at all.
If anyone has any advice/can sympathise I'd appreciate it.