Hi, just after some advice. When i was pregnant there was DV in the relationship, it got so bad that he was arrested and sent to prison, i stupidly got back with him when he was released. Things ended for good when our child was 2 shes now nearly 6 and things are no better, my ex partner goes weeks without seeing our child (he videocalls but doesnt physically bother) does not financially contribute towards any upbringing and when he does bother to see her is not with her long. Last few weeks hes decided to start having her over night only when it suits him. I feel like
lately he Is playing mind games with her, if she says no she doesnt want to stay at his then he starts saying things about me infront of her and going on and on like asif hes forcing her to eventually say yes to staying. Of course i want them to have a relationship but im starting to worry now that if he carries on the way he is messing with her mind that its going to effect her mentally and i dont know what to do. Hes a narcissist so its hard to coparent with him, he doesnt bother with his child but its all my fault type of thing. We have just been through court as he was refusing me to be able to take her on holiday so i got a order to be able to take her. Im at a loss how to handle this as no matter what i do im always to blame. Any advice?