So lived in my home for many years. Have a nice life with a good husband and happy. We keep ourselves to ourselves., however we say hello to neighbours how are you doing? Basic chat in passing (house to the car)
there is one neighbour who shows very narcissistic behaviour, who blames me for everything that happens on the estate, even when it's got nothing to do with me or part of this state I don't even live or use- its still my fault! The recent episode was some children being abusive and cheeky towards neighbours, purposely smashing windows hitting balls off doors and gates aggravating pet dogs, pinching out of garden etc. To the point where a number of neighbours have obviously had enough and contacted the council and he and anti social behaviour order has come into place. Absolutely nothing to do with me. I don't live in that part of this state. I don't use it. But this one particular sent me a nasty message pretty much venting her and get out me as her kid is one of the kids who smashed a neighbours window and laughed. And somehow once again I'm drugged into something that has nothing to do with me. I didn't even know anything about it. It took my next-door neighbour to tell me it was only after it all happened.
Worst part is the neighbour that's creating the drama moved out and to another estate months ago.
my friends daughter commit suicide, so every day I was with my friend supporting this was for weeks, in this time some drama started on the estate no idea to this what it is, but somehow i got the blame for it- even when im not there!
Same thing happened last year when I was on holiday!
this is the same neighbour that had ongoing problems due to alcohol, fighting, and usual drama, that some how blamed me when she was getting in trouble for it. I went out of my way to say hello and
ignore the drama. It wasnt my business I keep to ourselves. Assumptions made it must be me.
im so tired of it. I'm actually fed up of being blamed for stuff that doesn't involve me. It's not my business. Its wearing me down. It's actually starting to mentally drain me. I am at the point where i dont want to go out because there is drama and if anything happens, shell assume and blame me. Even when shes moved she doesnt stop. I dont even really know this person either! So I don't know what her problem is.
ive had 3 deaths this year one being my mum, then. my friends daughter died, im going through cancer treatment and this drama still happening. I literally don't understand what the obsession is other than it's narcissistic behaviour..
anyone else had a similar issue?