Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Other subjects

Husband driving me nuts?!?

5 replies

Anon1234512 · 08/06/2025 11:10

Recently my husband has been driving me up the walls, nothing big in particular but everything he does, says and even just being in the home is annoying me. I feel myself getting angry as soon as he comes in the door and then everything he does is getting on my nerves. For example, leaves his shoes lying doesn’t clean up his plate after dinner etc sometimes even just his presence in the same room as me makes me angry. I have started to snap at him all the time and conversations quickly turn into arguments that I kind of have just stopped talking to him. I know it seems very harsh because feeling like that has started out of nowhere, I’ve started to feel like I’m much happier when he’s not around. I don’t want to separate from him it’s nothing serious like that but I’m just confused as to why I’ve started to feel this way. Any advice/ experience anything is welcomed

OP posts:
ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 08/06/2025 11:40

I’m sorry to hear that, @Anon1234512

I can sympathise, cos my husband gets on my very last nerve, too.
He just grates on me.
He always comes home from work in a bad mood, which makes me feel uncomfortable.
But, as soon as one of his mates call him on comms, he instantly snaps out of it and is Mr Life and Soul of the Party, all of a sudden.

At this point, I don’t care what’s bothering him, but he can’t come home and take it out on me.

He went away to Portugal for a week, and it was absolutely lovely not having him here.
People asked me if I mind, and I wanted to laugh in their faces!

Richandstrange · 08/06/2025 11:50

How old are you OP? Seems very common for this to happen when we hit perimenopause, sometimes just because of hormonal changes in mood and sometimes because we just hit the end of our tether with unhealthy/unhappy relationships.

Trinity69 · 08/06/2025 11:51

I feel like this and I’m putting it down to perimenopause. Every single thing he does pisses me off.

Anon1234512 · 08/06/2025 12:12

Richandstrange · 08/06/2025 11:50

How old are you OP? Seems very common for this to happen when we hit perimenopause, sometimes just because of hormonal changes in mood and sometimes because we just hit the end of our tether with unhealthy/unhappy relationships.

I’m 28 so I don’t think it is perimenopause! I also don’t feel like I’m in an unhappy relationship but maybe deep down I know I am just don’t want to face it! Just feeling very confused but appreciate the reply x

OP posts:
Anon1234512 · 08/06/2025 12:14

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 08/06/2025 11:40

I’m sorry to hear that, @Anon1234512

I can sympathise, cos my husband gets on my very last nerve, too.
He just grates on me.
He always comes home from work in a bad mood, which makes me feel uncomfortable.
But, as soon as one of his mates call him on comms, he instantly snaps out of it and is Mr Life and Soul of the Party, all of a sudden.

At this point, I don’t care what’s bothering him, but he can’t come home and take it out on me.

He went away to Portugal for a week, and it was absolutely lovely not having him here.
People asked me if I mind, and I wanted to laugh in their faces!

Edited

It’s horrible isn’t it!! My husband is the same with friends, has a complete attitude change and so different to how he is at home.
But on the other hand he’ll always talk about how happy he is with me and would be lost without me and our child.

Maybe I’m just going through a rough patch and it’ll change soon but right now I’m definitely going through it lol!

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page