Pregnant and suspicious of my spouse

[Geeboo1]

My husband and I got married last year and I realised afterwards that a married lady with 2kids he told me they were family were having an affair until a year before we got married. After I found out he agreed to cut ties with her. I am 6months pregnant and we had a minor disagreement recently, I found out he has resumed contacting her again and she wants to move to the city we live in. I’m not sure how to go about the situation

Dump him. Give the baby your surname.
Don't waste more time to end up with the same situation 2 years down the road.

Sadly, it sounds as though the leopard is not going to change his spots. I would find the fact that she is proposing to move to your city particularly worrying. Time to get your ducks in a row, I’m afraid.

Are the kids his?

He told you she and her dc were his family, so you wouldn’t be suspicious when they met up and kept in touch and only came clean after you found out the truth. He’s lied yet again about keeping in contact with her and now she’s moving closer. You are calling yourself suspicious as you want to be reassured it’s just paranoia but it’s blatantly obvious they have resumed or will resume their relationship.
Your H hides the truth, he is not trustworthy and the woman moving closer is a big bad sign. You know there will be three of you in the marriage, if it’s not already happened so please leave him. Do it for your baby, it will be toxic as it will strip your mental health to shreds.
You can leave with your head held high and dignity intact right now! You can tell him he has lied to you, two times too much, ignore all his bullshit promises he won’t keep and leave. Staying will see you go through hell until you can’t take it anymore, is that how you want to raise a child?

Do you think she’s pregnant with his child as she wants to move closer, or could the children be his too?
Either way, I’d kick his sorry arse to the curb