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GreatDreamer · 12/04/2025 17:56

I am getting married and me and my teen will be moving in with future hubby into his house
last night we were discussing this and he said our room we can do as we like as with teens room the same but the rest of the house is not to be touched
we we are both in our 50s so I’ve got a few personal bits and pieces and sentimental things
i haven’t lived with a partner for over ten years due to past history (ex was abusive) and my hubby to be hasn’t for over six years
he’s given me a small glass room as my own so I can put a lot of my things there but perhaps it’s going from having my things around me to not that’s worrying me somewhat (if that makes sense)
I don’t mind photo albums etc being in the loft as I don’t look at them now
maybe I’m over thinking …. He’s a lovely man in every way , no red flags, and I know we are both going into this for the long haul so compromises do have to be made on both sides and yes mine mainly as it’s been his home for a long time and set in his ways, has anyone gone into a similar situation and resolved their mind from over whirring and possibly creating more than is really there ??

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GreatDreamer · 26/04/2025 15:08

Hi we’ve had a lot of chats about it all and things good
thanks guys

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Sleepalldaylong · 26/04/2025 16:51

Why the change of heart OP?

GreatDreamer · 26/04/2025 17:57

Had a lot of conversations and we have a long time to see what happens.

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Sleepalldaylong · 26/04/2025 18:57

I hope he is truly willing to compromise and not just telling you what you want to hear.

HarpSnail · 26/04/2025 19:03

GreatDreamer · 12/04/2025 21:20

Tbh before putting up this post I thought people would say it was me but I’m glad that what I feared is what others see in the situation, it did worry me when he stated it last night cos that isn’t an equal relationship, I know it would have been his house we would have been moving to but I thought it would be our home until last night,

It’s even more concerning that you didn’t see it yourself , OP. It sounds as if the DV relationship has taken a toll? Have you ever had therapy? It might be a very good time to figure out some stuff about yourself.

GreatDreamer · 26/04/2025 19:22

Yes I’ve had therapy, and I wanted to see if it was me over thinking, since the dv I have found “me” and that won’t change, I only put the post up to validate one way or the other what the problem was,

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