My husband has an 11year old son that he has basically rared. The BM was never maternal and went of to university in another country and left my husband to rare the child on his own. Paying all expenses. All bills while holding down a job and basically being a 1 parent family. When the BM returned from university she ended the relationship as she'd found a new man and took the son with her. They agreed they would share their son 50/50 and split all the bills. However my husband ended up with the child most of the the time as the BM always had something else she wanted to do. Over the years she has went from man to man. Jumped House to house dragging this little boy along. Her lifestyle is none of our business but she sees no wrong in her actions. We are the ones who give his son stability . Routine .. a proper home. We are the ones taught him how to ride his bike. Tie his lace. Read his books.draw. swim. everything. At our home he has set bed times. Dinner times and we make sure he is our number 1. We have family time. Pizza nites. Cinema days. Just lots of things 2ghtr as he really is our number 1. When he attends his mums for half rhe week she bounces him around dinner houses. He could be with 5different ppl when on BM time. Everyone else feeds him. Minds him and she arrives to lift him around 9pm and takes him home to put him to bed. This is her input to his week. We do his homework. Go over his spellings . He speaks to us about everything. At ours he is a child. She doesn't have a mother relationship with him. Doesn't cook him meals. Doesn't sit down to read with him. Or play with him or spend any time with him . She hands him to everyone. Always finds a way to dodge her responsibilities. Bt the one thng tht never changes is her want for money. And her entitled approach. All we here is i want. I want. My husband pays half of every single bill for their son. And 100% of every bill when their son is with us. The only time his ex speaks to my husband is to ask for money or childminding. She involves him in no decision making. She decides everything for their son and my husband is just told what to do. Where to b and isnt allowed to have an opinion. Because my husband is in a hugh paid job. His ex has approached the CMS on numerous occasions to claim. Now what we don't understand is how they just take the word of some random woman on the phone..she has to provide no proof or evidence to back her claims. And lies through her teeth. My husband pays half of every single bills for his son. While raring him over half the time and paying for 100% for things at our home. She is money mad. Every man she has had theres been an agenda behind it to get his money .married one and lasted 8months so she could take all his money in the divorce. Had a child with one so she could use the child to fleece the father. Even though on her time with her son she sends him to around 5different houses and sees nothing wrong with it. She lies constantly to my husbands little boy and we r the ones pick up the pieces when her lies fall through. If my husband challenges her to something she will say " I know what u earn i will go to the CMS" and she did. Crashed her car. Needed a few pound. Rang the CMS gave them a load of lies which they have believed and my husband has been told he owes her 2800 and has to pay 400 a month..every bill for their son for the last 11 years has been split and while my husbands half is paid hers lies unpaid. Outstanding. For months. The school had to write to her. And lots of other ppl. As she pays nthing. Buys their son nthing and can't be trusted. My husband pays all the bills direct . The childminder. School. Clubs. Trips .everything as she spends nthing on the child. Can't pay half the bills. Bt now the CMS are believing her lies. Even though my husband asked what evidence did she supply. What did she give to back her story up. Nthing..not one thing..bt the law CMS believe every word she said.im heart broken for my husband as for 11 years he has put his son first. Paid every bill that was related to his child. Has his son over 50% of the time.and he isnt involved in decision making.she chose their sons primary school. Doctors. Dentist. He's going into secondary school and she is not involving my husband at all in the decisions. Bt she not shame in putting her hand out for money and asking us to mind their son for her when she is meant to have him. Please help. What should we do about the CMS.if there's one father doesn't deserve this it's my husband. He's always been there for his son. In every way not only financial..pays all the bills but because he's in a high paid job this woman has made a claim . They say he owes her 2800 and will have to pay her 400 a month. Lol. For what? She never has their son. The country rares him for her. She never cooks him a meal. Leaves him with us or her new boyfriends and their families. Same pattern with every man. I feel the system is letting my husband done. He is a great father he is and doesn't deserve it. She is a horrible mother than only things about herself an lining her pockets. Help us. What should we do...