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lindam23 · 25/02/2025 23:31

I lost my Mum after a long illness in July 2024. I haven't been dealing very well and am just struggling to see the positives in anything at the moment.

I have a daughter who is almost 6. She is just a ray of sunshine and I don't know what I'd do without her.

Thursday would have been my Mum's birthday which is the 1st one since she passed away. My partner (not my daughter's dad) has booked a trip and is away for 4 days from the Wednesday morning to Saturday night. When I confronted him he said he did realise the dates and knows how hard it will be for me?! My daughter will also be at her Dad's Thursday-Saturday so I will be on my own. I have been feeling very emotional all week on the lead up to the day and am dreading the rest of the week.

Am I wrong to be annoyed about this?

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farmlife2 · 26/02/2025 05:26

I'm sorry OP, those firsts are so hard. I think it's hard to know what someone needs because we all need different things. I'd have been happy to be on my own to just deal with things quietly. But it is also nice if those closest to you check in to make sure of what you need on difficult days like anniversaries. I would be disappointed that they didn't check whether I needed them around. You're not wrong.

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