Just looking for some views on this to see what others have experienced. I have about five life long friends who I’ve met at school, uni, work etc but losing faith in are we even friends still? A few months ago I had two operations on my face to remove suspected skin cancer it was a really stressful time and people knew about it because they can see it so asked about it and I said how worried I was as I was rushed in to get it removed. Not one person except for an aunt and the ladies at the post office have asked about it, two of these friends asked to meet up and never mentioned it. Obviously I said by the way it come back ok. Even mine and my husband’s family never asked if I was ok not even once. I find it odd the first thing i say is are you ok do you need me to do anything if something bad happens to a friend or family member. I feel like these friendships don’t mean anything to be honest. To add I see these friends about five times a year, never fell out or had drama with any , pretty easy going friendships, none of them know each other just all friends from different stages over the years.